A countryside wedding venue with a difference you will fall in love with! Relax in the extensive lawned gardens, sip champagne whilst playing croquet before dining outside in The Orchard or snuggle up under a blanket next to our outdoor fire pit. You will be part of an exclusive Club with only 10 weddings here each year.
On arrival our outdoor courtyard reception area, with a beautiful Oak framed porch, is perfect for your guests to be served Champagne and canapés.
You can then mingle in the sunshine with drinks in the gardens or warm up next to the log burner in the Winter months – all with magnificent views of Kirkstead Abbey Ruin.
With twinkling fairy lights, The Oak Barn is at the heart of every wedding at Abbey Farm Wedding with 300 year old craftsmanship bought into the modern day the oak is brought to life and adds an amazingly romantic and heart warming rustic atmosphere.
Character and charm sum up the interior of both the Oak framed barn and The Bar which are beautiful buildings. With candles on the tables, our twinkling fairy lights and your own wedding décor, an amazing atmosphere is created and with up to 170 evening guests – you will have a great party too!
A wedding at Abbey Farm is what you want to make it! We work with you to make your bespoke wedding day come to life and actually happen! Our unique and delightful countryside venue is yours for the day and is one of a select few "exclusive use" venues in the Country. The Abbey Ruin will be floodlit in honour of your wedding day!
For those that love the outdoors we have perfect al fresco dining options. Enjoy a unique outdoor wedding breakfast with views over the gardens, pond and Abbey.
Come and see for yourself and prepare to be WOWED!
Spaces that create magical memories
The Oak Barn
Our Oak Barn is built in the traditional Lincolnshire style which offers a truly amazing building which will seat 110 guests.
St Leonard's Church
This 12th Century church offers intimate and magical charm for your wedding ceremony or blessing. Located just across a grassy field, walk or take a ride back to the barn for your reception.
The gardens are south facing and perfect for sipping champagne and eating canapés, or for a truly spectacular feast use our unique outdoor dining space for your wedding breakfast.
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Plan your Abbey Farm Wedding
Visiting Abbey Farm Weddings is by appointment only. We do this so that we can guarantee exclusivity to each of our lovely couples. When you arrive we will give you a guided tour of the venue, answer any questions you may have and offer unique insights into getting the best from the venue for your style of wedding.
Towards the end of the tour we’ll step back to allow you some quiet time so you can soak up the atmosphere.
"Our best memory is how absolutely perfect the venue was.. It completely fitted the wedding theme and everyone commented on how stunningly beautiful it was. I’ve…"
"We chose Abbey Farm as the venue for our wedding because of the beautiful setting and the rustic charm...what a perfect choice this turned out to be! We have had…"
"Thanks you for being so helpful in the run up to the wedding, helping us organise the timings of the day and ensuring we had thought of everything!"
"Your hard work, patience, generosity, creativity and humour allowed us to design and hold the day of our dreams. I look back and am amazed at how beautiful and personal…"
"Everything was perfect start to finish – nothing was too much trouble for Jo and she was very helpful throughout. The venue is incredible, everything has been thought…"
"We can't thank Jo and Will enough for all their help throughout, nothing was ever too much to trouble. We would highly recommend this venue for any future couples!!…"
" We had the most wonderful day. It is so nice to hear that the staff picked up on the atmosphere. We have had so many compliments about how relaxed and fun it was.…"