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At Abbey Farm you have the luxury of choice when it comes to how you use the space. Our rustic, interconnecting barns and outdoor areas have all been carefully crafted to ensure that our venue can be exceptionally flexible around your vision. No two weddings at Abbey Farm are the same. We love incorporating new ideas but can also offer plenty of personal guidance and advice at any point.

Finding it difficult to imagine how your day might look?

Lets us guide you through the options:


Ceremony

St Leonard's Church

St Leonard's Church

The beautiful and ancient Church of St Leonard’s, built in 1212 is situated right at the centre of Abbey Farm, allowing the entirety of your celebrations to take place on-site.

The Church seats between 60 – 80 guests and is reached across the Abbey Field by car or on foot through beautiful grass meadows and a romantic woodland walk. Alternatively, your guests can park at Abbey Farm, enjoy a drink in our bar and then be transported in true country style on our tractor and trailer. Or, our Vintage Land Rover can also be available to transport the bridal party to the Church.

For more information on getting married at the Church or for a Wedding Blessing, please contact us.

Outdoor

Outdoor

Dreaming of the perfect outdoor ceremony, set in the idyllic English countryside? There are multiple romantic backdrops to choose from, making such a precious moment totally unforgettable for you. Your guests are bound to enjoy the adventure of experiencing an intimate ceremony, right at the heart of nature. And please don't worry about the unpredictable British weather, we always have an indoor backup (which is equally as beautiful) available!

Old Granary Barn

Old Granary Barn

Hold your ceremony under the elegant mezzanine lights of the Old Granary Barn, creating the most romantic, magical and intimate setting all year round. Full of character and charm, we wanted to ensure this Barn not only retained all of it's authentic, original features but also incorporated a modern, luxurious twist.

Oak Barn

Oak Barn

Situated at the heart of our venue, the Oak Barn was built in 2016 using the traditional 300 year old Mud & Stud craftsmanship of Lincolnshire. The incredible Oak beams are locally sourced and add an amazingly romantic and heart warming atmosphere. Accommodating a larger guest list, this barn can seat up to 160 guests for your ceremony. Tie the knot amidst the glow of real fire light in front of the log burner or make use of the rustic backdrop of the traditional barn doors.

Reception

Drinks Reception

Drinks Reception

What better way to celebrate your marriage than to enjoy a glass of champagne in the sunshine, with views of the beautiful English Countryside and the magnificent Kirkstead Abbey Ruin. Whilst you take the opportunity to capture your dream couple shots in our picturesque locations across the grounds, you can be reassured that your guests will be entertained with all of our garden games. Alternatively, our spacious and interconnecting barns are the perfect rustic setting to hold your indoor drinks reception, without having to step foot outside of the venue again. During the Winter, this is especially romantic as guests can enjoy a drink in front of the warm glow of our log burners.

Wedding Breakfast

Wedding Breakfast

With up to 90 seated guests in the Oak Barn, or 160 in the Old Granary, you have the flexibility to host a more intimate wedding breakfast or enjoy the ease of extending your guest list, ensuring nobody misses out on a whole day of celebrations!
The choice is yours when it comes to how you use the spaces available and potential table layouts. We are always more than happy to guide you on what might work best with your numbers & plans for the day.

Choosing your wedding menu is also very much up to you and our catering recommendations can be found here: Directory of Suppliers

Speeches

Speeches

When it comes to speeches and their positioning within the order of the day, this is totally down to the preference of each couple and their speakers! For those who might be feeling a little nervous, speaking before the meal means that they can then enjoy their food. Otherwise, to avoid hungry guests, you can take the more traditional format of speeches following your meal. Whenever you choose, this can be the perfect opportunity to give your guests a glass of fizz, as a toast to the brand new Mr & Mrs!

Evening

Bar

Bar

With wonderful stone walls, open rafters and fairy lights, the bar creates a warm and welcoming ambience for all of your guests, day or night! Linking all of the barns together, it is also the perfect place for your wedding cake to take centre stage - and ensures everyone sees it throughout your day!

As well as our wide variety of gins, rums and vodkas, we also stock a large number of local Lincolnshire brands and of course, the very own Nelstrop family English Whisky & Norfolk Nog! Our friendly team of bar staff are always on hand to mix you your favourite tipple, cocktail or pour the perfect pint!

When the dancing begins and the cocktails start flowing, the bar really comes to life. Additionally, it offers a great chill out area with plenty of comfortable seating in front of a roaring log burner. Overlooking the outdoor firepit, this really is the ideal place to relax and rest those weary dancing feet and somewhere for the “grown-ups” to chat away from the music!

Courtyard

Courtyard

Once you leave the wedding breakfast, the courtyard becomes the central point of the evening due to being situated between the Oak and Old Granary barns, as well as leading straight into the bar. As your evening reception begins, it is the perfect place to catch up with family and friends and mingle over a drink next to our giant fire pit. This is great for toasting marshmallows and cosying up under our rugs on those chillier evenings.

The Courtyard offers plenty of space for your favourite street food vendor to position themselves close to the action because who doesn't appreciate a bit of comfort food towards the end of the night!?

Why not plan a couple "evening send off"? This is a perfect photo opportunity and is a lovely chance to get all of your guests together at the end of the night.

Dancing

Dancing

When it comes to entertainment, your choice of Band or DJ forms a big part in kick starting your evening, bringing an energetic vibe and atmosphere and most importantly, ensuring the dance floor is always full!

In order to avoid the awkward lull of a changeover, guests can move seamlessly into the adjacent barn or enjoy a drink at the bar, linking your wedding day to your evening celebrations. But no need to worry - there will still be plenty of time should you wish to change into an evening outfit and wow your guests with your First Dance!

Spoilt for Choice?

Looking for inspiration on how you might like to use the venue for your day? Take a look at our Real Weddings, showing just a few of the different formats our previous couples have chosen.


  • Mr & Mrs Edwards, August 2024

    " All I ever wanted from a venue! "

    "I fell in love with Abbey Farm as soon as I stepped foot inside - it was all I ever wanted from a venue! You all work so hard to make sure everything runs so smoothly from start to finish and it absolutely shows. We are so appreciative of everything you did for us and we would highly recommend you!"

  • Mr & Mrs Agravat, August 2024

    "There aren't enough words to express how grateful we are!"

    "If you're thinking of booking Abbey Farm, do it! We couldn't recommend them enough. The venue is beautiful and everything we dreamed of for our wedding. Jo, Millie and the whole team exceeded our expectations and ensured we had the most magical day, even with the typical British Weather! There aren't enough words to express how grateful we are!"

  • Mr & Mrs Marashi, May 2024

    "Such a beautiful venue with such warm and welcoming staff"

    "Such a beautiful venue with such warm and walcoming staff. Millie & Jo were honest and open and nothing was too much trouble, helping us plan the most magical day ever. The choice of spaces meant everything flowed so seamlessly, with plenty of gorgeous backdrops for photographs."

  • Mr & Mrs Landon, July 2024

    "The service and support was second to none"

    "There is no better venue to hold your special day! We loved its versatility and space, allowing us to be as creative as we wanted and bring our own personal touches. The service and support was second to none, making planning a wedding from Australia seamless! Millie & Jo's knowledge, ideas and enthusiasm made the day even more special."

  • Mr & Mrs Lomas, July 2023

    "Just perfect in every way!"

    "From the moment we visited the venue and met Jo, we knew this was the perfect venue for us! On the day, we didn't have to ask for anything as it was all taken care of by Jo & Millie. We were able to fully enjoy our day with friends and family. It was the most amazing day and we would recommend Abbey Farm to anyone getting married - it's just perfect in every way!"

  • Mr & Mrs Saxby, August 2024

    "Our wedding wouldn’t have been the same anywhere else!"

    "The entire team at Abbey Farm were so amazing to work with. We couldn’t have wished for better people to support us in making our special day the best day ever. Millie and Jo are both so helpful and knowledgable in all areas. Whether you need recommendations for suppliers or just an opinion on something, they are both so fantastic to speak to and seek help in. The venue is so beautiful and well presented inside and out. The grounds are beautiful and everywhere is kept so clean and well maintained. I am so glad we found this venue as our wedding wouldn’t have been the same anywhere else!"

  • Mr & Mrs Motley, October 2021

    "Abbey Farm Weddings was simply the best wedding venue ever!"

    "Abbey Farm Weddings was simply the best wedding venue ever! I can not recommend this venue enough to anyone looking for a venue in the Lincolnshire area! Jo and her amazing team were brilliant and made our day the most magical it could have been! We loved every second. It was the happiest day of our lives and that wouldn’t have happened without Abbey Farm Weddings!!!"

Abbey Farm Weddings
Abbey Farm,
Abbey Lane, Kirkstead,
Woodhall Spa,
Lincolnshire LN10 6UH

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