Our Story

Welcome to our home and family farm, set in the heart of the Lincolnshire countryside which we believe is some of England’s finest! 18 years ago we decided to host weddings here. It was at this point we had the vision for transforming the existing farm buildings which was a true labour of love and we are all so proud of the results!

Our small family business has grown very quickly, and we take great pride in the fact that we continue to only offer a limited number of bespoke and high quality weddings throughout each year.


Meet the Team

Our friends would describe the 3 of us as fun loving and loving a good party so be assured you're in good hands!

Jo Nelstrop

Jo Nelstrop, Venue Owner

Before married life, Jo worked as Head of Events for Nestle Purina - the perfect role for an organised, people person who loves the buzz of managing live events! More importantly, it taught her to be prepared - literally for anything and everything! We've got a few great stories!

When not busy running weddings, Jo will almost certainly be in her vegetable garden, supporting one of the boys on the side of the rugby pitch or walking the dogs!

Millie

Millie, Wedding Events Manager

Millie is our Wedding Events Manager, joining us in 2022. With a Marketing & Management degree and exceptional organisational skills, Millie is the perfect person to have around on your wedding day; from offering expert planning advice to being on-hand to ensure your day runs seamlessly. Despite not being Jo's daughter (as everyone assumes!), they make a great double act!

With her cocker spaniel Gilbert, time away from work is never dull and normally consists of a walk in the Peak District followed by an Aperol Spritz (because life is all about balance!)

Will Nelstrop

Will Nelstrop, Venue Owner

Abbey Farm remains a working arable farm, led by Will and assisted by our brilliant farm team and 2 sons, Harry & Freddie. Whilst running a farm and a wedding business may seem a huge step apart, the benefit and practicalities of having a farmer behind the scenes and to test the beer is absolutely perfect!

Will’s drink of choice has always been a pint of Bateman’s XB, which goes perfectly hand in hand as a passionate supporter of England Rugby and Leicester Tigers!

  • Mr & Mrs Edwards, August 2024

    " All I ever wanted from a venue! "

    "I fell in love with Abbey Farm as soon as I stepped foot inside - it was all I ever wanted from a venue! You all work so hard to make sure everything runs so smoothly from start to finish and it absolutely shows. We are so appreciative of everything you did for us and we would highly recommend you!"

  • Mr & Mrs Agravat, August 2024

    "There aren't enough words to express how grateful we are!"

    "If you're thinking of booking Abbey Farm, do it! We couldn't recommend them enough. The venue is beautiful and everything we dreamed of for our wedding. Jo, Millie and the whole team exceeded our expectations and ensured we had the most magical day, even with the typical British Weather! There aren't enough words to express how grateful we are!"

  • Mr & Mrs Marashi, May 2024

    "Such a beautiful venue with such warm and welcoming staff"

    "Such a beautiful venue with such warm and walcoming staff. Millie & Jo were honest and open and nothing was too much trouble, helping us plan the most magical day ever. The choice of spaces meant everything flowed so seamlessly, with plenty of gorgeous backdrops for photographs."

  • Mr & Mrs Landon, July 2024

    "The service and support was second to none"

    "There is no better venue to hold your special day! We loved its versatility and space, allowing us to be as creative as we wanted and bring our own personal touches. The service and support was second to none, making planning a wedding from Australia seamless! Millie & Jo's knowledge, ideas and enthusiasm made the day even more special."

  • Mr & Mrs Lomas, July 2023

    "Just perfect in every way!"

    "From the moment we visited the venue and met Jo, we knew this was the perfect venue for us! On the day, we didn't have to ask for anything as it was all taken care of by Jo & Millie. We were able to fully enjoy our day with friends and family. It was the most amazing day and we would recommend Abbey Farm to anyone getting married - it's just perfect in every way!"

  • Mr & Mrs Saxby, August 2024

    "Our wedding wouldn’t have been the same anywhere else!"

    "The entire team at Abbey Farm were so amazing to work with. We couldn’t have wished for better people to support us in making our special day the best day ever. Millie and Jo are both so helpful and knowledgable in all areas. Whether you need recommendations for suppliers or just an opinion on something, they are both so fantastic to speak to and seek help in. The venue is so beautiful and well presented inside and out. The grounds are beautiful and everywhere is kept so clean and well maintained. I am so glad we found this venue as our wedding wouldn’t have been the same anywhere else!"

  • Mr & Mrs Motley, October 2021

    "Abbey Farm Weddings was simply the best wedding venue ever!"

    "Abbey Farm Weddings was simply the best wedding venue ever! I can not recommend this venue enough to anyone looking for a venue in the Lincolnshire area! Jo and her amazing team were brilliant and made our day the most magical it could have been! We loved every second. It was the happiest day of our lives and that wouldn’t have happened without Abbey Farm Weddings!!!"

Abbey Farm Weddings
Abbey Farm,
Abbey Lane, Kirkstead,
Woodhall Spa,
Lincolnshire LN10 6UH

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